Life After Death: I Sense Him Near – But How Do I Know?
Afterlife Phil G shares his mailbag to help Lisa from Britain to connect with her father in the Afterlife: “I lost my father, I sense him near, but my thoughts are so mixed up I can’t actually know if it’s his thoughts or mine…”
“Sensing contact with the afterlife doesn’t mean you can easily understand or believe the contact is real or clear, especially if it’s someone very close to you – you need to find a way to verify things the contact is real, and not just imagined.”
I had the same problem and it’s why I developed my simple technique. (Accidentally, as visitors to my website on life after death). Firstly, if you sense him around, then he’s with you. I know some would say that’s being nave, but it’s true and you can prove it yourself.
We need to move onto how to clarify things. Specifically there are a few tools I make available to help on my website on contacting the afterlife. Can I run through those first. Connecting is about being relaxed, to the point you’re not controlling your own thoughts – like a deep meditation phase where your body goes to jelly – accepting anything that comes through, and then verifying it, step by step, until it becomes easier.
On my web site on contacting the afterlife, I share many ideas to help, most of it free, including instructions, a YouTube video, and a list of books and guides to help. But the starting point is relaxing. I find it hard to get clear detail if I am busy, rushed, or thinking about too many things. So the first step is to be very relaxed, to the point of not being aware of anything else around you. Whilst I suggest my own audio guide “Contact Family in the Afterlife yourself”, any meditation will do.
From my own personal perspective, I find it hard to get clear information or feelings if I am too much in the “now” – so the absolute important step is to relax. Especially if you ‘feel’ people around – it’s often much easier to know when others are around rather than those who you know well. Relaxing helps you ‘zone out’ and any meditation will do or the “Contact Family in the Afterlife yourself” audio guide has a very effective section in it.
The reason you need to relax and let go is so that any random thought can come in. When you are aware of things, and your mind is switched on, you think things through too much, you analyse too much, and that stops the flow of information. It’s like asking someone’s advice, and then thinking your own thoughts and not listening – you won’t hear them, you’ll only hear your own thoughts. You may not get what you want right now, but you’ll get things, and it gets easier.
Lastly, you want to confirm what you got was not just your own thoughts, and my personal suggestion is to ask for something you don’t know, or something you’re forgotten. Something you don’t know can be any random thing. In my wife’s case, the final ‘proof’ she needed to verify I was sharing messages from her father was an image I saw of a round cylinder containing a bunch of pens and pencils, being knocked to the ground. I had not seen her office, did not know she had pens and pencils in a container like that (she doesn’t at home), and she had in fact knocked it off the desk that day.
In my book ‘Soul Matters – you can talk with those you miss’ I talk about my Nanna coming through one evening. (She passed away when I was about 7) She showed me a scone on a plate. I had no idea what this meant, until I heard her voice say “don’t you remember the scones?” – then I remembered. I had asked my mum over and over to make scones like my Nanna (The British make scones much better than Aussies do!) I had completely forgotten that.
So ask, and trust the answer, even if what you get does not make sense – and over the next few hours or days it will, and it will verify your connection. In your case, I understand you already sense him near, and don’t really need to know how to connect clearly with him, but I’ve shared these things because I feel if you do these small simple steps, you’ll go from sensing he’s with you to getting clear messages and being able to verify it’s real.
I hope this helps you gain clarification. If you follow those steps, and talk a look at those points on the website (philg.net.au) I’m sure you’ll get the response you need to clarify and verify contact with your father in the Afterlife.
Cheers, Phil G
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